1. Not scoring the ground
The number one line is to test the ground. Unless you and your girl are experts in this sexting thing, don’t let the bomb suddenly fall with a very high pitch phrase, because you might not find the answer you want.
Start with a hint and a sexy phrase of the style:
“I can’t wait to see you and do all these things in my head with you.”
From there, act in accordance with your answer. If it gives you some ground to continue the game into the Freeway!
This way you gradually increase the excitement and guarantee that you turn to when you see that you will not be an uncomfortable situation, but slightly more natural.
2. Sexting after the first date
Along the same lines of things that can be very uncomfortable, people find themselves involved in this type of conversation after a first date. Of course, you both have to set the boundaries in that new relationship, but this kind of conversations that can be left on your mobile for posterity (not to mention the photos), should only be taken with people with whom you have total confidence.
So you know, keep your fingers away from the phone and wait a bit. The good is always waiting. And it is always better to do sexting once you have had physical relationships than before, because if we let the imagination fly, we can leave expectations too high and then do not meet in the real plane.
3. Not letting yourself go
If you’re going to do something, do it right? Don’t go straight to the point, because with sexting that doesn’t work. Here, the key is in the details and in saying absolutely everything that comes into your mind in total detail.
It involves describing every moment that you would like to materialize with your partner, in the most erotic and graphical way possible. Of course, focus especially on saying things you really would want to do with it. It is also about heating the environment!
4. Doing it when you’re drunk
When you write messages full of spelling mistakes, with little significance or too graphically for no apparent reason, they may not have the spicy effect you expect. Trust us.
If you go one night and you start to feel like doing certain things with it, keep your cell phone away. Or at least feel the ground. She can also start to liking you and so you make sure you finish the night perfectly… Even if you are married to your partner, there is no rule that you do to sexting with her. In fact, there is an interesting research that backs up the idea of sexting among married couples and marks it perfectly normal.
5. Not using your imagination
If you are not familiar with sending pictures of yourself (let’s face it, it may be too risky), you do something more subtle, but that will also get a very warm result.
For example, We refer to sending photos of a sexy set you have, a toy, a lipstick… Or, if you dare, a snapshot of your mouth or your legs. Remember that the key is in the details and in leaving something for the imagination.
6. Being afraid to make mistakes
If something wonderful in sexting is that you are without makeup, in pajamas or eating some potatoes. And the truth is that what you say, how you are or what you wear, does not have to be 100% accurate… No one will notice the difference! Although, it is also true, that if you predispose, surely you enjoy much more and make her enjoy the lake.
7. Not telling her your fantasies
Although sexting can be a way to have fun, it can improve your sex life. People are not afraid to say what we think or what we feel when we are not the other person who is present for us, so it can be the perfect opportunity to tell you your fantasies without seeing how you blush.
It is possible that he is also excited to do these things, but that neither dares to raise it, so start with: “Imagine what you do…” Or “Imagine what I’m doing for you…” And give your imagination a free rein. Don’t forget to put it into practice when you’re together!
8. Doing THIS
Certain mistakes that men tend to commit during sexting and consequently, it can be a big turn. The problem with 21st century men is that they are not assertive. They are either too aggressive or passive, which can deter a woman really quickly. And then there are man-child. Your immaturity and immaturity will surely reflect on the way you sext.
Avoid using the eggplant Emoji. That’s definitely not the way you should describe your clutter. At the same time, do not really exaggerate. Girls find it terrible when a man can’t shut down about his size and girth. You need wordplay to make everything work. Not the technicalities. It seems to be only patriarchial and boring, because each girl’s inbox is flooded with a lot of guys who have their bodies. So, adopt mannerism and be cultivated in your interaction.
… So, what really gets a woman turned on?
Eloquence. Your knowledge about female sexuality. Did you know, according to a study, majority of the male population can not find the clitoris? Seduce a woman about your knowledge regarding female sexuality.
Talking about going down on her. Patriarchial Society encourages ideas against female oral sex. When you write her paragraphs and excites her about gently rattling her Clive with the tip of your tongue, she will definitely lose it! In addition, do not make any snarky comments about the vaginal. Embrace them. Show confidence in your words as you embrace them. Do not touch her uncertainties. Say no to fish smell.
When a woman finds a man who is interested in giving her greatest pleasure, she cannot resist, but she does pose. Many women are programmed and assume that the whole course of action is that they are pleasing a man, but if you shift roles here and give her an idea that it is she who gets to it all high and steamy, she will absolutely be blown and want to woo you your To put in life.